How to Pray with Faith: Don’t Give Up

Matthew 7:7–11

The Power of Persistent Prayer

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus teaches His disciples not only how to live before others, but how to live before God. In Matthew 7:7–11, He gives one of the most encouraging invitations in all of Scripture:

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you” (Matt. 7:7).

These words call believers to a life of persistent prayer, humble dependence, and deep confidence in the goodness of the Father.

Prayer is not presented here as a last resort, but as a normal expression of trust in God. Jesus does not describe God as reluctant, indifferent, or irritated by our requests. Instead, He reveals Him as a good Father who knows how to give good gifts to His children (Matt. 7:11). For that reason, Christians are called to pray with perseverance and faith, drawing near to God with confidence (Heb. 4:16; Phil. 4:6–7).

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Be Persistent in Prayer; Trust in God’s Goodness

Jesus says:

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. Or which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!”
Matthew 7:7–11

The lesson is clear: believers should be persistent in prayer because they can trust the goodness of their heavenly Father. Jesus uses three commands—ask, seek, knock—to urge active, continued dependence on God. He then grounds that persistence in the Father’s character. We pray not because we can control outcomes, but because God is good, wise, and generous.

This teaching fits with the wider witness of Scripture. Believers are told to “pray without ceasing” (1 Thess. 5:17), to bring requests to God with thanksgiving (Phil. 4:6), and to ask in faith (James 1:5–6). Prayer is not a technique for getting everything we want. It is the child of God coming to the Father in trust.

Key Points to Remember

1. Prayer Is an Ongoing Pursuit of God

Jesus says, ask, seek, and knock (Matt. 7:7). These verbs show active, continued dependence.

Prayer is more than saying words in a moment of need. To ask is to bring requests before God. To seek is to pursue Him sincerely. To knock is to wait at His door with patient expectation. Jesus teaches persistence, not passivity. He calls His disciples to keep coming to the Father, believing that prayer matters because God hears (Jer. 29:13; Luke 18:1).

This persistence does not mean trying to force God’s hand. Rather, it means refusing to give up on prayer because we know God is faithful. Often, God uses continued prayer to shape our hearts, deepen our faith, and align our desires with His will (Rom. 12:12; 1 John 5:14).

For example, a believer has been praying for a prodigal family member for years. There may be no visible change for a long time, yet the believer continues to ask God for mercy, seek wisdom in how to love, and knock persistently at the door of grace. Such prayer is not wasted. God honors persevering faith.

Martin Luther said, “To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.”

2. God’s Responses Flow From His Fatherly Goodness

Jesus compares earthly fathers with the heavenly Father, showing that God gives what is good to His children (Matt. 7:9–11).

The heart of this passage is the character of God. Jesus says that even flawed human fathers normally give bread, not stones, and fish, not serpents, to their children. If that is true of sinful people, “how much more” will the heavenly Father give good things to those who ask Him (Matt. 7:11). This is an argument from lesser to greater. God is not merely somewhat kind. He is perfectly good.

That means God’s answers are governed by wisdom as well as love. He gives what is truly good, not necessarily what seems good to us in the moment. At times He says yes, at times no, and at times wait. But in every case, His response is consistent with His goodness (Ps. 84:11; Rom. 8:32).

Take for example a Christian who prays for a particular opportunity—a job, relationship, or ministry role—and does not receive it. In time, it becomes clear that the closed door was itself a mercy. God did not withhold good; He protected His child and led toward something better according to His wisdom.

A. W. Tozer wrote, “The goodness of God is the drive behind all the blessings He daily bestows upon us.”

3. Confidence in Prayer Rests on Relationship, Not Merit

Jesus teaches believers to pray as children coming to their Father (Matt. 7:11).

The foundation of prayer is not our worthiness, but God’s fatherly grace. Jesus does not say that only the strong, flawless, or spiritually advanced may ask. He simply says to come. The believer’s confidence is relational: “your Father who is in heaven” (Matt. 7:11). This echoes earlier teaching in the Sermon on the Mount, where Jesus says, “your Father knows what you need before you ask him” (Matt. 6:8).

Because of Christ, believers may approach God with boldness (Heb. 4:14–16). We do not earn access; we are invited into it. Prayer, then, is an act of faith that rests in the love of the Father and the finished work of the Son.

To illustrate, consider a Christian burdened by failure may hesitate to pray, feeling unworthy to come before God. Yet this passage encourages that very person to ask, seek, and knock. The Father does not receive His children because they perform perfectly, but because He is merciful and Christ is sufficient.

Charles Spurgeon said, “Whether we like it or not, asking is the rule of the Kingdom.”

Practical Application for Us to Live By

1. Growing in Persistence in Prayer

  • Set aside daily time for prayer. A regular habit helps train the heart to depend on God (Ps. 5:3).
  • Keep a prayer list. Write down specific requests and review them often so that you continue asking and also remember God’s answers.
  • Pray beyond first attempts. Do not assume a delayed answer means a denied prayer (Luke 18:1–8).
  • Pray Scripture back to God. Use passages such as Matthew 7:7–11, Psalm 23, and Philippians 4:6–7 to shape your prayers.

2. Trusting God’s Goodness in Every Answer

  • Thank God before the answer comes. Gratitude expresses confidence in His wisdom (1 Thess. 5:16–18).
  • Interpret delays through God’s character. When answers seem slow, remember that the Father is good, not careless (Matt. 7:11).
  • Submit your requests to God’s will. Christian prayer is bold, but it is never demanding (Luke 22:42; 1 John 5:14).
  • Look for God’s provision in unexpected ways. Sometimes His answer comes differently than we imagined, yet still reveals His care.

3. Bringing Real Needs to the Father

  • Pray about practical matters. Jesus invites prayer for daily needs, not only spiritual concerns (Matt. 6:11).
  • Ask for wisdom. God promises to give wisdom generously to those who ask in faith (James 1:5).
  • Bring emotional burdens to God. Anxiety, fear, grief, and confusion should be carried into prayer (Phil. 4:6–7; 1 Pet. 5:7).
  • Pray for others consistently. Persistent prayer includes interceding for family, church, leaders, and the lost (Eph. 6:18).

4. Living as Children Who Depend on the Father

  • Approach God with humility. Prayer reminds us we are dependent creatures, not self-sufficient people (John 15:5).
  • Come with confidence, not presumption. We are welcomed because God is our Father, yet we still come with reverence (Heb. 12:28).
  • Let prayer shape your decisions. Ask God for guidance before acting, not only after trouble appears (Prov. 3:5–6).
  • Cultivate a seeking heart. Do not merely seek God’s gifts; seek God Himself (Ps. 27:8).

Recommended Reading for Further Study

  1. John Stott, The Message of the Sermon on the Mount
    A trusted and clear exposition of Matthew 5–7, with strong pastoral insight into Jesus’ teaching on prayer.
  2. Martyn Lloyd-Jones, Studies in the Sermon on the Mount
    A classic work that carefully explores the heart of discipleship, including dependence on God in prayer.
  3. E. M. Bounds, The Necessity of Prayer
    A well-known and deeply devotional book on the importance of persistent prayer in the Christian life.

Encouraging Conclusion

Jesus’ words in Matthew 7:7–11 are meant to strengthen weary hearts. The Lord does not tell His disciples to remain silent, distant, or doubtful. He invites them to ask, seek, and knock. He teaches them to keep praying because their Father is good. That means no sincere prayer offered in faith is meaningless, even when the answer is delayed or comes in an unexpected form.

So keep coming to God. Ask for what you need. Seek His face. Knock with patient faith. The same Savior who taught these words also opened the way for sinners to draw near to the Father through His own grace (Heb. 10:19–22). You can pray with confidence today, not because you have all the answers, but because your Father does. And He gives good things to those who ask Him.

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