> Words are among the most valuable tools God has given us. With a single sentence, we can build up or tear down, encourage or discourage, bring peace or provoke trouble. Scripture, and especially the book of Proverbs, is rich with wisdom about the power of our speech. As we begin this three-part series on Speech and Communication, we’ll discover that learning to use our words wisely is central to living a godly life.
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What Proverbs Says About the Power of Words
Proverbs doesn’t merely advise good manners; it uncovers the life-giving or destructive energy our words carry. Consider these foundational verses:
Proverbs 12:18
“The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” (NIV)
Proverbs 15:4
“The soothing tongue is a tree of life, but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.” (NIV)
Proverbs 18:21
“The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” (NIV)
These verses remind us: speech is never neutral. Every word we speak leaves a mark—for good or for harm.
Wisdom from Proverbs: Speak to Heal, Not to Harm
Words Can Wound or Heal:
Proverbs compares harsh words to sword thrusts; reckless speech can cut deeply and cause lasting pain. In families, workplaces, and churches, unkind words often linger long after they’re spoken. But words of wisdom—thoughtful, kind, and true—bring healing and restoration to broken hearts.
- In an argument, for example, imagine a situation where two coworkers disagree on how to approach a project deadline. One person, feeling frustrated, might say, “You never take this seriously! You’re impossible to work with.” These harsh words not only escalate the tension but may hurt the other person’s sense of competence and self-worth, leading to defensiveness or resentment. This deepens the division and alienates both parties further.
- Alternatively, the same coworker could express frustration more constructively by saying, “I feel really concerned about meeting this deadline. Can we talk through how to make sure we’re on the same page?” This approach uses thoughtful, neutral language that invites collaboration. It creates an opening for shared problem-solving, reducing hostility and fostering mutual respect. The choice of calmer, kinder words in this scenario contributes to a peaceful resolution instead of damaging the relationship.
Words Shape Spirits:
A “soothing tongue” gives life and hope, like a flourishing tree. But perverse or twisted words can crush a person’s spirit, destroying confidence and joy. Wise speech refreshes; careless speech withers.
- To illustrate, a teenager nervously shares their artwork with a friend. The friend responds kindly, saying, “This is incredible! You have so much talent. Keep going!” The teen feels motivated and confident, inspired to create more.
- In contrast, another person looks at the same artwork and sneers, “This looks amateur. You’ll never make it as an artist.” The harsh comment crushes the teen’s confidence, leaving them discouraged and hesitant to try again.
Words Carry Consequences:
Proverbs 18:21 soberingly teaches that the tongue holds “the power of life and death.” What we say can influence destinies—our own and others’. As believers, we are called to steward our speech, knowing that every conversation is an opportunity to bless or to wound.
- For example. a teacher faces two choices with a struggling student. Saying, “You’ll never succeed like this,” may discourage them and hinder growth. Saying, “I see your potential; let’s work together,” inspires hope and effort. Words can build up or tear down, showing the power of speech to shape lives. Use them wisely.
“Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.”
— Mother Teresa
Application: How Can We Speak Wisely?
- Pause Before You Speak
Ask, “Will this word heal or hurt?” A short delay can keep us from saying something we regret. - Aim for Encouragement
Let your speech be filled with grace, bringing hope and comfort (see Ephesians 4:29). - Seek God’s Help
Pray, “Set a guard over my mouth, Lord…” (Psalm 141:3). Wisdom to speak well comes from God. - Apologize and Restore
If you misuse words, be quick to seek forgiveness and offer healing.
Conclusion
Proverbs teaches that words are powerful—a “tree of life” or a weapon that wounds. As followers of Christ, let’s strive to be people whose speech brings healing and life into every circumstance. May God give us wisdom to build up, encourage, and reflect His love in all we say.
“Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord…”
— Psalm 19:14 (ESV)
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