Navigating the Complexities of Divorce and Remarriage: An Evangelical Perspective
> The issue of divorce and remarriage remains one of the most challenging topics within Christian ethics and pastoral care. While the Catholic Church has traditionally maintained a stringent stance against divorce and remarriage, evangelical Christianity presents a more varied landscape of beliefs and practices.
This article will explore the reasons why many evangelical denominations permit divorce and remarriage under certain conditions, drawing from scriptural interpretation, theological considerations, and pastoral concerns.
Understanding Evangelical Views on Divorce
Evangelicals hold a high view of marriage, seeing it as a sacred covenant reflective of Christ’s relationship with the Church. However, they also recognize that we live in a fallen world where relationships can be deeply affected by sin. Consequently, while divorce is not the ideal and is always seen as a last resort, many evangelicals believe that Scripture provides allowances for divorce in specific situations.
Scriptural Grounds for Divorce
The primary biblical passage that evangelicals cite regarding divorce is Matthew 19:9, where Jesus says, “I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” This “exception clause” is understood by many evangelicals to permit divorce in cases of adultery. Additionally, some evangelicals reference 1 Corinthians 7:15, which discusses abandonment by an unbelieving spouse, as another circumstance where divorce may be allowable.
Theological Reflections on Human Brokenness
Evangelicals emphasize that God’s original design for marriage did not include divorce. However, theologians like Timothy Keller acknowledge that “Divorce is a regrettable reality of human brokenness, not the ideal God intended.” In light of this brokenness, evangelical churches often seek to balance the upholding of marital commitment with compassion for those who find themselves in situations of marital unfaithfulness or abandonment.
Pastoral Care and Church Discipline
In dealing with divorce and remarriage, evangelical churches typically exercise a level of pastoral discretion. Church leaders are called to carefully consider the circumstances of each case, providing counsel, support, and, when necessary, church discipline. The goal is always to seek restoration and healing, but when that is not possible, to provide guidance that is both biblically faithful and sensitive to the complexities of human relationships.
Differences from the Catholic Approach
The Catholic Church views marriage as an indissoluble sacrament and, traditionally, does not recognize divorce. Annulments may be granted, but these are declarations that a valid marriage never existed in the first place. In contrast, evangelicals do not generally view marriage as a sacrament in the same sense and thus consider the marriage covenant as potentially breakable under extreme circumstances.
Resource for Further Study
For those interested in a thorough evangelical analysis of the biblical texts and historical context related to divorce and remarriage, “Divorce and Remarriage in the Church” by David Instone-Brewer provides a comprehensive examination. This resource delves into the interpretation of relevant Scriptures, the teachings of early church leaders, and the application of these principles to modern situations.
Conclusion
The evangelical approach to divorce and remarriage is characterized by a commitment to the sanctity of marriage and a recognition of the painful reality of human sin. While evangelicals grieve the occurrence of divorce and strive to support marriages, they generally allow for divorce and remarriage in certain circumstances, such as adultery or abandonment, based on their understanding of Scripture. This position reflects a desire to uphold God’s design for marriage while extending grace and compassion to those who have experienced the profound brokenness of a marital covenant. Evangelical churches continue to navigate these delicate issues, seeking to offer healing and hope to all individuals affected by the tragedy of divorce.
